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It is OK to have kinks and fetishes etc. It is not OK to be so direct in messages pictures, play scenarios what you wantespecially when you haven't met them. It is too full on in ya face. Slow down. It is appropriate to ask first. People loose interest very quickly and it is Red Flags.

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It can can come across as pushy and unwarranted. Maybe fill out your profile correctly. Keep your extreme pics in your private gallery. If someone wants to see them, wait till they ask, not when you're ready.

Ms Foxy. You can unpick someone's kinks with a tooth pick or a sledgehammer You went for the sledgehammer! If it were us, a constant barrage of messages after we hadn't replied would have set of major red flags about playing within boundaries. As to seeing things in profile pics, don't assume that someone will want to try all of their kinks with everyone they meet. Bdsm has a high level of trust involved in it and that trust can take quite some time to develop, maybe not before you've actually met!

Oh, and maybe the bareback act was with a fluid bonded partner. You've stated 2 people have said you're "too forward" Maybe its the WAY you communicate your scenarios moreso than the context and acts you're outlining. Doesn't mean I don't enjoy playing like that with the right people.

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But, if they're anything like me, I dont particularly find chatting about "scenarios" or viewing people "in the act" as very appealing at all quite the opposite, I don't like it I too would politely distance myself. Try dropping back a few gears and establish a genuine "non sexual" connection and maybe let things unfold more organically and when you're face to face.

Mr Dragon I agree with SpicyKale about "Trust". I assume you are aware it is not something freely handed out to any willy nilly. The dynamic relationship has to be a healthy one. I'm curious, how do you go about earning trust and maintaining it? I rarely have any kind of sexual conversation with someone I havent met face to face.

I need to know that I am attracted to that person sexually before I consider taking it any further. I have found those who want to jump in straight away talking about sex without meeting Not necessarily sex with me Just sex. Fluid bonded! As I liked so many of the responses. I clearly have some views which align with others!

To summarise; Put your handbrake on mate. Just because someone has kinks or fetishes doesn't mean they will want to do them with you. If a bloke starts in with a "a scenario", then it is an instant no from me, and many other women are the same. Don't ever assume a woman will want to sex talk. For me, its the most boring thing in the world to do with a complete stranger. People use different sites for different needs. Don't make so many assumptions around having different profiles on different sites.

I don't know how many launch into these activites with a stranger as their offsider.

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I am going to reply point by point 1. Why did I discuss play scenario before I meet? Well, maybe that's because to discuss and see if our interests align? I can't believe I really have to answer this question. Even a simple 'Hey mate, wife wants fun wanna for MFM?

Which then, led to 2. Trust and boundaries are important, - yes they are, and that's why the play scenario, kink, ect should be discussed and laid out prior to meeting the person. So if I have a kink on anal and never tell the girl, and deliberately do anal without discussing it- that's rape. Or to actually spent weeks and weeks chatting and meeting and never discuss kinks or play scenario, then to find out the interests don't align.

Which is the more effective? Trust is important, that was why I asked if she wanted to meet for a coffee. Yea, like I mentioned. I have met people off RHP who I play on first meet and still got kinkier than fetlife. Bareback and partner - if it was a couple profile and she's barebacked, yea maybe it's her partner. But a single women profile who are seeking males People respond to what stimulates and interested them.

Like 'I want to tie you up, kiss you at your lips, nipples, ect ect, and spank your bum ect ecy' and if they don't want to do it, simply say 'sounds good, but I don't want to be kiss ect ect' or just 'no sorry, ect ect. If a bloke starts in with a "a scenario" - really?

I attempted with small talk, how are you, how was your day, Fun chat and maybe bdsm forum ect I did not start with scenario, read again. Mr Dragon. To quote you. Ok, now I've got you. Agree with all comments above, although it appears the OP is on a justification mission.

I have a fetlife as do many others. I treat is as a separate lifestyle to redhotpie lifestyle. If planet's align there is the chance that people from one lifestyle may mingle with me with the other. But no guarantees in life. Probably think the OP is a normal human being but being human means the personality may or not match those he is approaching.

We all know if there is a connection, things will evolve. If there is no chemistry things won't go anywhere. No matter how hard you try and push things, if it's not gonna happen, its just not. Just because many of has kinks, fetlife s, doesn't make us pushover. Probably the opposite. Our creep radar is more finely tuned as our personalities are open and out there, creeps are hidden in the bushes waiting for the opportunity. Chill out OP, fetlife people are more down to earth than you give us credit for. I find men that keep pushing or mentioning sex or something sexual in every message are a huge turn off.

Good old fashioned respect and manners still go a long way from my experience. People tend to respond to what makes them comfortable. We are all different. Just takes time I guess to find the right fit. Topics: Comments: Topics: 77 Comments: Forum board. Stay ON topic. Hasn't that topic been posted before? Where the heck did that topic go? .

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I wish to ask, or rant, if anyone feels the same or opposite- when I see or chat with other profiles on RHP, and once they start mention thinks like - I am active on Fetlife. On Fetlife, they seem to talk so much about enjoying their different kinks, showing very hardcore photos compare to RHP; but once I start to get in contact and say 'Hey, I see you enjoy this and I like this too Meanwhile, people I have met on RHP rarely mentions their kink, but when I meet and play I have met people with some extremely kinkiest things. My most recent experience is a new woman profile on RHP.

My profile states I enjoy group sex orgies MF, threesomes ect. I asked if she is interested, and if so I like to chat further. So we started exchanging Kik. The conversation started off as small talks, non sex related. Then she started mentioning Fetlife. So, I re- my Fetlife to have a look at her profile and see photos of her being fucked bareback, anal gaping, a cock deep her mouth.

Her Kinks are listed. So I started to discuss her kinks and come up with scenario.

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She said 'Not until we meet', so I invited her out for coffee- 'I'm busy' She said. Sent her non sex related messages, no response. So I try a different approach, I sent her photos similar to what she has in her Fetlife profile or what she has liked on others profiles. She responded positively, so I sent more and she continued to engage.

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